I Request Help from Cardinal Ratzinger
August 1989
When the “New Creation Series on Sex Education” was submitted to Rome for review by a Canon Law organization, Cardinal Ratzinger, Prefect for the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, reviewed “New Creation” only from a doctrinal perspective. Parents were disappointed with his narrow response, “The program does not appear to be problematic from a doctrinal point of view,” writes Cardinal Ratzinger. Cardinal Gagnon was in total disagreement with Cardinal Ratzinger. Cardinal Ratzinger never responded to my letter.
MRS. EDWARD GRAYSON
33 AUDUBON LANE
Belmont, Massachusetts 02178
August 2, 1989
His Eminence Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger
Prefect – The Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith
00120 Vatican City State, Europe
Your Eminence:
Last year, my young son, (age 13) was exposed to “sexuality education” based on a text called “Understanding Sex and Sexuality” by Nancy Hennessy Cooney and Anne Bingham (signer of a pro-abortion ad in the New York Times).
Despite my objection, the text was used. During the year, I wrote this formal review of her book, which has been distributed by Catholics United for Faith (enclosed).
A few weeks ago, the headmaster sent to me the enclosed newspaper article with no comment. Again, enclosed is my response to him.
From my perspective, your qualified statement of “the program not appearing to be problematic from the doctrinal point of view,” which can only be understood as a cautious, conservative observation by rational people, has been abused unmercifully by the media and by those who have implemented this text, such as my son’s headmaster at St. Sebastian’s.
I would urge you to make a stronger statement with regard to the dangers of this book and come to the aid of parents, such as me, who have invested long, heart-breaking hours fighting the evil these kinds of books and accompanied teaching have brought about. The family, our domestic Church, is under attack from all side: the children’s friends, the media, materialism, and a pleasure-oriented society. I for one am a mother who is desperate for Church leaders, such as yourself, to confirm what I know is holy and good.
I hope you will consider my request.
Sincerely and with respect,
Alice A. Grayson
Table of Contents
- Oxymoron Introduction: Crocodile Tears – Are the Bishops Really Sorry
- Summary of Church Teachings in Oxymoron
- Oxymoron Critiques Submitted to Cardinal Law
- The Complete Letters of Alice Grayson to Cardinal Law
- First Review by Alice Grayson to Cardinal Law
- July 1989 – Cardinal Gagnon calls the “New Creation Series” morally offensive.
- August 1989 – I Request Help from Cardinal Ratzinger
- Fall 1990 – Asking for Help Again
- 1988 – My review of “Understanding of Sex and Sexuality” by Alice A. Grayson
- February 1991 – Address to the Belmont School Committee
- Winter 1990 – Spring 1991, Critique of Sex Education Guidelines
- June 24, 1991 – Comprehensive Letter to Cardinal Law
- Spring 1991 – Letters to Rome, Copies to Cardinal Law
- July 12, 1991 – Cardinal Law replies to my letter of June 24th and promises action.
- August 12, 1991 – Cardinal Law’s action
- September 11, 1991 – I felt betrayed by Monsignor Murphy
- December 6, 1991 – Monsignor Murphy washes his hands.
- January 1992 – The buck stops here!
- January 24, 1992 – I submitted an alternative suggestion to Cardinal
- January 30, 1992 – More Baloney
- February 4, 1992 – Cardinal Law must have felt uneasy.
- Spring 1992 – An abbreviated Answer
- Spring 1992 – The mysterious letter of Bishop Riley
- Spring 1992 – James Likoudis
- February 1993 – Catholic Classroom Sex Education is an Oxymoron
- March 9, 1993 – The Archdioscean Newspaper
- April 7, 1992 – My second letter to The Pilot
- April 7, 1993 – No! No! No!
- September 2, 1993 – Cardinal Law’s Action in Resolving Oxymoron
- September 27, 1993 – Murphy
- March 8, 1994 – Cardinal Law’s Reply to Oxymoron
- May 4, 1994 – My Challenge to Cardinal Law
- May 4, 1994 – An analysis of Cardinal Law’s Response
- May 4, 1994 – Complaint to Pope John Paul II.
- August 1994 – Dr. Gerald Benitz writes to Cardinal Law
- August 24, 1994 – Msgr. William Murphy, Vicar General of the Boston Archdiocese
- February 23, 1995 – Observation of the persistence in sex education
- March 14, 1995 – Monsignor Murphy asks me to quit writing the Archdiocese
- April 4, 1995 – I quit writing the Archdiocese
- 1998 – The last communication with Cardinal Law
- June 27, 2004 – The current battle for the children